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          pads |More poetry: Dr. Michael
          Abramson's
        poetry, "timeless," by Joe Davis 
      
    
    
    
    The poem received an award from the annual
      Berkeley poetry
      dinner contest, 1999.
    
    
      
        
          
            
              
                
                  "A Death in the Family"
                  by Ellaraine Lockie
                   
                  I check toilet papers for
                  
                    the pinkish stain
                   
                  That announces its arrival
                  My time of the month
                  Link to the moon
                  Mankind enabler
                  Menstrual period
                  A period fading into
                  
                    a question mark
                   
                  Soon to be an unpunctuated blank
                  Ovarian governors wither on
                  
                    fallopian vines
                   
                  An oncoming death in my
                  
                    family of organs
                   
                  Death by a berserk body-clock
                  That no repairman can fix
                  Forty years of dependable dates
                  With my most feminine old friend
                  Have become surprise visits
                  No calls first
                  Just discourteous drop-ins
                  Surely an Emily Post violation
                  But not nature's
                  Her way of surviving the fittest
                  Giving babies I'll never have
                  To my daughters
                  And their daughters
                  My body rebels against the bias
                  Fights a noble retirement battle
                  Opposed by hormonal brigades
                  A futile war
                  That mutates into mourning
                  Evolves to acceptance
                  Changes to contentment
                  Satisfaction when the pink stain
                  
                    announces its cramps
                   
                  Leakage
                  Smell
                  Messy sex
                  On someone else's paper
                 
               
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      First publication credit of the poem belongs to "Black Spring
        Review"
        with subsequent publication to the following: 
        "Eclectic Woman"
        issue of "The Sweet Annie & Sweet Pea Review" and the
        chapbook,
        MIDLIFE MUSE by Ellaraine Lockie. 
    MIDLIFE MUSE can be ordered
        for $4.00 from Poetry
        Forum, 5713 Larchmont Dr., Erie, PA 16509, (814) 866-2543. 
        It was the First
        Place winner in Poetry Forum's 2000 poetry chapbook contest.