New this week: Kotex pads (1959, U.S.A.) - Brazilian gynecologist Dr. Nelson Soucasaux: The physiology of menstruation - humor

Would you stop menstruating if you could? (New contributions)
Words and expressions for menstruation (England: I'm in season, I'm on heat; U.S.A.: Leak week, Paul Revere's ride)
What did European and American women use for menstruation in the past?
humor

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I am OK

I (Harry Finley, who writes this site) live and work in the Washington, D.C., area, but I'm unscathed. Everything on this site continues normally, including the updates next weekend and every other week. And your contributions.

Peace! Stay safe!


Letters to your MUM

Does anyone know artist Martina Hoffman's address?

Hello!

My name is Cho, Doojin and I'm a editor at Inhyang Publishing Co. in Seoul, Korea.

I am publishing a Korean edition of Is Menstruation Obsolete? (Oxford University Press, 1999) [read some excerpts, a review, and some responses to the theme of the book, voluntarily stopping menstruation]. I have seen the Female Crucifixion by Martina Hoffmann on your Web site and I'm deeply impressed by the picture. So I want to use the picture in making an image of our new book's cover. I would like to know how can I get a permission to use the picture.

Thank you for your attention.

I look forward to hearing from you soon.

Sincerely,

Cho, Doojin ockam@korea.com

[I searched Colorado on the Internet but couldn't find her. She had submitted her pictures from that state years ago.]

Black panty liners on the market

Dear Mr. Finley:

Have you heard about Carefree's new black panty liners? They just started selling them here in Connecticut. Just like the regular deal, only jet-black, for dark-colored panties. Will you be adding this product to your museum Web site? [I checked my Safeway grocery store this morning, but no black panty liners. I live near Washington, D.C., perhaps not a cutting-edge pad town. I wonder if the dye used to blacken the pad could be harmful.

[A Swedish site regular mentioned in July that Sweden had introduced black panty liners.]

-A Faithful MUM.org Reader in Connecticut (U.S.A.)


She likes menstrual cups, especially Instead, but how do you explain them to men?

Mr. Finley,

I am a huge advocate of menstrual cups [read an incomplete history of cups and see pictures of some]. I have been using Instead for a couple years now with wonderful success. I wouldn't use anything else! It's almost like not having a period anymore. It's just not a big deal.

During the day I don't have to make sure to carry anything with me; I normally empty the cup at noon, wash it with antibacterial soap and re-use, and use a new one when I get home. It's great not having to fill your purse up with pads and drag it everywhere.

I have one question or request, and I have not e-mailed it to Instead yet at this point [Instead's Web site]. I am 31 and divorced. I've had a number of sexual partners and always have a difficult time "explaining," and some men are terrified to hear anything about menstruation [I used to be one of them. When I was in my 30s, I remember my mind and body "freezing" when a girlfriend casually mentioned that her mother had not prepared her for her first period. I just had no idea what to say. I've learned a lot since then!] I personally feel obligated to tell my partner if I'm having my period if we're going to have sex, but I wish there was an easier way to explain how the Instead cup works, and why it is much cleaner and user-friendly to use during sex. Actually, I think I could get away with never telling anyone I'm wearing one, but I wouldn't feel right about it. Personally I feel that most times even oral sex would be possible without the slightest hint of odor or blood, but there just isn't a good way to explain how these work to guys.

Is there, or would there possibly be a way to set up a FAQ for MEN on this subject?? Some way to say, "I use something different, here, go to this Web site!!!" [That's a terrific idea! I asked the writer to write something herself, which I and any of you out there could refine. But it might spoil the atmosphere to have a computer right there, tuned to this Web site, your MUM eager to answer questions.]

Thanks for your work on the MUM site. I've really enjoyed my "tour." My Gram [grandmother] has never wanted to discuss how things of "that nature" worked in her day, and I've always wondered. Next, I'd like to do a search on the history of birth control, because she won't talk about that either. [The history of birth control is another topic this site and the future museum will discuss. Someone who objects to birth control and also to reading a history of it might think about how a history of the world would read if no mention were made of Hitler.]

I'd love to visit your museum someday. This is all very enlightening.

A sincere woman,


Here's her Kotex #2

Dear Harry:

I don't want to be a picky lady, but here below what you mentioned for the update on July 29:

To satisfy the writer, on Saturday I imaged Kotex from 1974, as well as 1959 and probably the 1930s - all from the MUM archives - but on Sunday my computer went bonkers and wouldn't start until evening, so I couldn't surprise her with her favorite pad. I'll finish the pages for the next update. Name one person who REALLY understands computers!

Thanks for the 1930s Kotex belted pad picture but I saw no pictures of 1959 and 1974 pads on the August 12 update.

Will I be surprised on the next update? [Yes - see New this week at the top of the page.] Do you have Modess pictures also?

Thanks again for your lovely site.

Sincerely,

Montreal, Canada


I'm happy to do it

Thank you for doing this.

"Feminism is the radical notion that women are people."

Robin Garrett, Director

Women's Center

West Chester University

West Chester PA 19383

"Keep the faith. After all, failure is impossible."



Tampons and the empowerment of women

I am a student at the University of California at Berkeley. I am researching the history of the tampon and its relation to the, social, political, and economical empowerment of women. Do you have any suggestions for primary and/or secondary research materials? [If you have suggestions, e-mail me and I'll pass them along.]

I'm decreasing the frequency of the updates to make time for figuring out how to earn an income

I can retire from my graphics job in July 2002, and I really want to. But I can't live on the retirement income, so I must find a way to earn enough to support myself. I'm working on some ideas now, and I need the only spare time I have, the time I do these updates on weekends. So, starting June 2001, I will update this site every other week rather than weekly.

I have "independently-wealthy" envy, probably like most people in the world. But I would not fritter it away on fast cars and fast women - Oh, no! - but devote the little time I have remaining instead to your and my MUM - this Web site and museum.

Book about menstruation published in Spain
 

The Spanish journalist who contributed some words for menstruation to this site last year and wrote about this museum (MUM) in the Madrid newspaper "El País" just co-authored with her daughter a book about menstruation (cover at left).

She writes, in part,

Dear Harry Finley,

As I told you, my daughter (Clara de Cominges) and I have written a book (called "El tabú") about menstruation, which is the first one to be published in Spain about that subject. The book - it talks about the MUM - is coming out at the end of March and I just said to the publisher, Editorial Planeta, to contact you and send you some pages from it and the cover as well. I'm sure that it will be interesting to you to have some information about the book that I hope has enough sense of humour to be understood anywhere. Thank you for your interest and help.

If you need anything else, please let me know.

Best wishes,

Margarita Rivière

Belen Lopez, the editor of nonfiction at Planeta, adds that "Margarita, more than 50 years old, and Clara, 20, expose their own experiences about menstruation with a sensational sense of humour." (Later this month more information will appear on the publisher's site, in Spanish.)

My guess is that Spaniards will regard the cover as risqué, as many Americans would. And the book, too. But, let's celebrate!

Two weeks ago I mentioned that Procter & Gamble was trying to change attitudes in the Spanish-speaking Americas to get more women to use tampons, specifically Tampax - a hard sell.

Compare this cover with the box cover for the Canadian television video about menstruation, Under Wraps, and the second The Curse.

An American network is now developing a program about menstruation for a popular cable channel; some folks from the network visited me recently to borrow material.

And this museum lent historical tampons and ads for a television program in Spain last year.

Now, if I could only read Spanish! (I'm a former German teacher.)



Do you want to show items from this museum?

Please contact me if, on behalf of an organization, you want to borrow and show items from this museum and are willing to pay the shipping expenses, or if you have a good idea about where the museum can set up permanently.

All this depends on availability of items.

Items from the museum have appeared in television programs in Spain, Canada and Germany and in displays in the United States, as well as in magazines around the world (see media).

If you're able to pay my shipping expenses, and if I can skip work, you can also listen to me, live, talk endlessly about this endlessly interesting subject!

Money and this site

I, Harry Finley, creator of the museum and site and the "I" of the narrative here, receive no money for any products or services on this site. Sometimes people donate items to the museum.

All expenses for the site come out of my pocket, where my salary from my job as a graphic designer is deposited.


Privacy

What happens when you visit this site?

For now, a search engine service will tell me who visits this site, although I don't know in what detail yet. I am not taking names - it's something that comes with the service, which I'm testing to see if it makes it easier for you to locate information on this large site.

In any case, I'm not giving away or selling names of visitors and you won't receive anything from me; you won't get a "cookie." I feel the same way most of you do when you visit a site: I want to be anonymous! Leave me alone!


Help Wanted: This Museum Needs a Public Official For Its Board of Directors

Your MUM is doing the paper work necessary to become eligible to receive support from foundations as a 501(c)3 nonprofit corporation. To achieve this status, it helps to have a American public official - an elected or appointed official of the government, federal, state or local - on its board of directors.

What public official out there will support a museum for the worldwide culture of women's health and menstruation?

Read about my ideas for the museum. What are yours?

Eventually I would also like to entice people experienced in the law, finances and fund raising to the board.

Any suggestions?


Do You Have Irregular Menses?

If so, you may have polycystic ovary syndrome [and here's a support association for it].

Jane Newman, Clinical Research Coordinator at Brigham and Women's Hospital, Harvard University School of Medicine, asked me to tell you that

Irregular menses identify women at high risk for polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS), which exists in 6-10% of women of reproductive age. PCOS is a major cause of infertility and is linked to diabetes.

Learn more about current research on PCOS at Brigham and Women's Hospital, the University of Pennsylvania and Pennsylvania State University - or contact Jane Newman.

If you have fewer than six periods a year, you may be eligible to participate in the study!

See more medical and scientific information about menstruation.


New this week: Kotex pads (1959, U.S.A.) - Brazilian gynecologist Dr. Nelson Soucasaux: The physiology of menstruation - humor

Would you stop menstruating if you could? (New contributions)
Words and expressions for menstruation (U.S.A.: Leak week, Paul Revere's ride)
What did European and American women use for menstruation in the past?
humor

PREVIOUS NEWS
first page | LIST OF ALL TOPICS | MUM address | e-mail the museum | privacy on this site | art of menstruation | artists (non-menstrual) | asbestos | belts | bidets | founder bio | Bly, Nellie | MUM board | books (and reviews) | cats | company booklets directory | contraception and religion | costumes | cups | cup usage | dispensers | douches, pain, sprays | essay directory | extraction | famous people | FAQ | humor | huts | links | media | miscellaneous | museum future | Norwegian menstruation exhibit | odor | pad directory | patent medicine | poetry directory | products, current | religion | menstrual products safety | science | shame | sponges | synchrony | tampon directory | early tampons | teen ads directory | tour (video) | underpants directory | videos, films directory | What did women do about menstruation in the past? | washable pads

privacy on this site

© 2001 Harry Finley. It is illegal to reproduce or distribute work on this Web site in any manner or medium without written permission of the author. Please report suspected violations to hfinley@mum.org