And, of course, the first Tampax AND - special
                        for you! - the American fax tampon,
                        from the early 1930s, which also came in bags.
                      See a Modess True or
                          False? ad in The American Girl magazine,
                        January 1947, and actress Carol
                          Lynley in "How Shall I Tell My Daughter"
                        booklet ad (1955) - Modess
                          . . . . because ads (many dates).
                      
                      
                      
                          
                          
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                      Menstruation and giving money to PBS
                      
                        
                          
                            
                              
                                Last spring [1998], as a classical
                                  music fan, I pledged support to my
                                  local public broadcasting radio
                                  station. And I did it in the name of
                                  the Museum of Menstruation. 
                                   
                                  The man taking my call said, "Museum
                                  of ...?", waiting for me to repeat the
                                  phrase. This happens often. 
                                   
                                  I said he had heard me correctly. "The
                                  word is menstruation." 
                                   
                                  "Andrew, you're blushing!" said a
                                  woman close to the man on the phone.
                                  The drive volunteer confirmed this to
                                  me. 
                                   
                                  We talked a minute about the museum
                                  and its contents and he wished me
                                  luck, which was nice of him. He even
                                  said he would visit some time, which I
                                  doubt. Probably 95% of the museum's
                                  visitors are intelligent, liberal
                                  women, and I get the impression most
                                  men come as bodyguards. They look as
                                  if they feel out of place. 
                                   
                                  Among his questions was - it always
                                  comes around to this - Why open a
                                  museum devoted to menstruation?  
                                   
                                  It's been suggested that it's my
                                  dating service. Any visitor to the
                                  museum would laugh at that.  
                                   
                                  Or that I hate women. Or that I'm a
                                  homosexual. Please. 
                                   
                                  The answer is because it's not there,
                                  to twist around the reply of mountain
                                  climbers. Like mountains, menstruation
                                  makes many people uneasy. Often you
                                  get over both by facing them -
                                  climbing mountains, learning about
                                  menstruation.  
                                   
                                  Menstruation didn't become a mountain
                                  for me until I started collecting page
                                  layouts and ads for ideas as the art
                                  director for a small magazine in
                                  Germany 15 years ago (I'm an artist).
                                  Ripping my way through hundreds of
                                  magazines from England to Japan, I
                                  noticed that ads for tampons and pads
                                  differed tremendously from one country
                                  to the next. This piqued me - I
                                  majored in pique and resolution,
                                  philosophy, at Johns Hopkins, where
                                  rooming next door to pre-med students
                                  obviously rubbed off - and when I
                                  returned to the Pentagon - yes, I work
                                  for the feds - after 13 years in
                                  Europe I offered the use of my ads to
                                  Glamour, Ms., and similar
                                  publications. 
                                   
                                  At the same time I called up the Kotex
                                  and Tampax public affairs people,
                                  asking them if they had historical
                                  displays of their products, or if they
                                  knew of a museum of menstruation
                                  anywhere. I was getting interested in
                                  the whole culture of menstruation and
                                  the marketing of its products.  
                                   
                                  Pause. "Museum of ...?" But unlike the
                                  PBS volunteer they didn't seem
                                  embarrassed, just, well, miffed
                                  somehow. Had I said something wrong? 
                                   
                                  So, of course, I had to open my own.
                                  It's been a roller coaster experience,
                                  which I will write about sometime. 
                                   
                                  The museum may be unique, but
                                  temporary displays of menstrual
                                  history are not - at least in Europe.
                                  Besides the current one in a town
                                    museum in Norway, the city
                                  museum of Frankfurt, Germany,
                                  incorporated a selection of German
                                  menstrual products history into an
                                  exhibition of the history of underwear
                                  in the late 1980's. Yes, I said city
                                  and town museums. Imagine that in the
                                  United Sates. 
                                   
                                  But no matter where the museum is, it
                                  can change lives. It has changed mine.
                                  And the changes are for the better.
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